Picking your first fantasy dildo can feel intimidating, but the right choice comes down to size, material, and firmness. Here’s a simple guide to choosing safely and confidently.
- Start with a manageable size—comfort first, fantasy later.
- Platinum silicone is safest and most durable.
- Firmness changes how texture feels: soft = forgiving, firm = intense.
- Textures and shapes affect stimulation and cleaning.
- Lube is essential—always choose water-based for silicone toys.
What Size Dildo Should Beginners Choose?
Size is personal and relative to your body. The vagina’s G-spot sits about 2–3 inches inside, so an insertable length around 5–6 inches with moderate girth is often ideal for a first toy.
Too much size too soon can cause discomfort. Many Dragon Dildo® buyers start with a beginner-friendly model before moving up to larger, textured fantasy toys.
Which Materials Are Safest?
Not all toy materials are equal. Porous materials can harbor bacteria and break down over time. Here’s a comparison:
| Material | Pros | Cons |
|---|---|---|
| Platinum Silicone | Body-safe, non-porous, sterilizable, durable | Premium price |
| Glass | Firm, smooth, easy to clean | No flex, intense for beginners |
| Metal | Heavy, strong pressure | Not forgiving, niche use |
| Jelly/TPE | Cheap, soft | Porous, unsafe, degrades quickly |
Avoid jelly or gel toys. They often contain phthalates and can’t be fully cleaned. Dragon Dildo® uses only platinum medical-grade silicone—the gold standard for hygiene and safety.
How Does Firmness Affect Experience?
- Soft: More bend and give, gentle for beginners.
- Medium: Balanced definition and flex. Our most popular firmness.
- Firm: Maximum texture and stimulation, best for experienced users.
Large toys in soft silicone may feel floppy, while firm silicone keeps its shape but feels more intense. Choose firmness to match both size and confidence.
What About Texture and Shape?
Texture creates unique sensations and also affects ease of use and cleaning:
- Smooth shafts: Best for first-timers, less drag, easier insertion.
- Ridges, scales, or knots: Add stimulation but can feel overwhelming at larger sizes.
- Curved tips: Designed for G-spot or prostate pressure.
- Flares or suction bases: Add stability for riding or hands-free play.
Do Dildos Guarantee Orgasm?
No toy guarantees orgasm. Many users need external clitoral or perineal stimulation to climax. A dildo adds fullness and targeted pressure, and pairing with a vibrator often increases satisfaction. For anal or prostate play, firmness and curve matter most.
Should I Use Condoms or Lube with My Dildo?
Lube: Always use water-based with silicone toys. It’s safe, easy to reapply, and helps avoid surface damage. Silicone lubes can break down silicone toys over time.
Condoms: Not needed for solo use but recommended if toys are shared. They simplify cleanup and reduce transfer of bacteria.
Firsthand Proof: Buyer Survey Insights
In a recent buyer survey, many beginners reported preferring medium firmness for comfort, while advanced users leaned toward firmer textures. This aligns with reviews praising Dragon Dildo® for balancing stretch and stimulation.
Why Trust Us
This guide is written by Emily Conway, Creative Director at Dragon Dildo®. Emily validates product specs against our catalog, oversees fulfillment, and monitors customer feedback.
