How to Use a Horse Dildo Safely

Horse dildos are larger than average and have a distinctive flared head that requires some preparation, especially if you're new to them or stepping up in size. This guide covers everything you need for a safe, comfortable, and satisfying experience, from your first session through to working with XL sizes.

Before You Start: What You Need

• Water-based lube, essential, and more than you think. Never use silicone-based lube with silicone toys, it degrades the surface over time. See our lube guide for recommendations.
• A warm, relaxed environment, tension is the enemy of comfortable penetration. Take your time getting into the right headspace before starting.
• A towel or waterproof mat, especially useful with ejaculating or inflatable models.
• Your chosen toy and clean hands, wash the toy before first use and after every session. See the cleaning guide.

Step-by-Step: Using a Horse Dildo

Step 1, Warm up properly

Don't skip this. The equine flared head is wider than the shaft on most models, which means the widest moment comes at entry. Warm up with fingers or a smaller toy before introducing the horse dildo. For models ov er 6 cm diameter, a proper warm-up session lasting 15-20 minutes is worthwhile.

Step 2, Apply lube generously

Apply water-based lube to both the toy and yourself. For horse dildos, the flared head in particular benefits from thorough lubrication, this is the point of maximum stretch. Don't be conservative here. Reapply mid-session as needed; silicone absorbs lube less than skin does but the lube will spread thin over time.

Step 3, Work past the head slowly

The flared head is the widest point on most horse dildo designs. Once it's inside, the shaft is typically n arrower, so the sensation shifts after entry. Take your time here. Breathe out on insertion, keep muscles as relaxed as possible, and don't force anything.

Step 4, Find your depth and rhythm

Once the head is past, you have the full insertable length available. You don't need to use all of it. Start shallow and work deeper as you become comfortable. The listed insertable lengths are maximums, use whatever depth works for you.

Step 5, For ejaculating models: set up the reservoir first

Before you start, fill the reservoir via the pump mechanism. Use water for a tes t run on your first use, then switch to cum-style lube for the full effect. Make sure the pump is primed and ready before you begin, you don't want to break the moment fumbling with it. Trigger at climax by squeezing the pump.

Step 6, For inflatable models: start deflated

Insert the Tikbalang or Destrier at its minimum size, 4.5 cm or 6.3 cm diameter respectively. Once you're comfortable, use the inflation mechanism to expand gradually to your preferred girth. Deflate fully before removal.

Size Progression: Working Up to La rger Models

If you're aiming for the Kentucky Derby (6.9 cm), Mammoth (8.8 cm), or any of the larger models, progression over multiple sessions is the safest approach. Trying to jump to XL in one session rarely ends well.

Positions That Work Well

The equine shape lends itself to certain positions more than others:

• On your back, toy held in hand, gives you most control over depth and angle. Best for first-time sessions with a new size.< /li>
• Seated on the toy (suction cup), the Churchill has a suction cup base that attaches to a flat surface. This position uses body weight naturally. Start in a squat so you can control how much pressure you apply.
• On all fours, works well for toys without suction cups, held in hand or against a surface. Gravity helps with the flared head entry.
• Side-lying, relaxed and good for sustained sessions with mid-size models.

Using Ejaculating Horse Dildos

The ejaculating function is most satisfying when :

• The reservoir is fully loaded before you start
• You've built up to orgasm naturally before triggering the pump
• You use cum-style lube rather than water, the consistency and appearance are significantly better
• The toy is inserted at a depth where the release will be felt internally

After each ejaculating session, flush the reservoir channel thoroughly, warm water through the pump mechanism several times. This prevents residue building up in the tube.

Aftercare

After every session:

1. Wash the toy with warm water and mild, unscented soap
2. For ejaculating models, flush the reservoir and pump channel with clean water
3. Rinse thoroughly, no soap residue
4. Dry with a clean cloth or let air dry
5. Store in a clean bag or pouch, away from other silicone toys (silicone can bond to silicone over time)

Platinum silicone can also be sterilised by boiling for 5 minutes, or running through a dishwasher on the top rack (no detergent, no ejaculating mechanism, heat only). See the full silicone toy cleaning guide for more detail.

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